My review of Revive Her Drive

In most of my reviews regarding sex tips, it’s usually stuff about how to please her or how to get sex that first time out. But what many of the programs neglect is what happens after the first dozen times you have sex? What happens when you get yourself in a long-term relationship with someone you truly love and then the sex starts to fizzle?

This is where “Revive Her Drive” by Tim and Susan Bratton comes in. And today I’ll be reviewing this product.

In short, “Revive Her Drive” seeks to get your wife’s or girlfriend’s sex drive back after it seems to short circuit at some point in the relationship. If you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, you know what I’m talking about.

Usually, for me at least, it happens right around the 6-month point. You try to go for sex and she refuses by saying that she’d rather sleep. Or you get to a day where you try to remember the last time you had sex and you can’t. Or you notice that it’s been over a month since the last time she was the one to initiate sex with you, that you’re the one who always seems to want it more than you.

Well, that’s what the program attempts to fix.

The fact that the Brattons are married and still in a heavy-sex mode is pretty much all the expert testimony you need; if they can make it work, then you know it’s possible. The question, then, is if they can translate their own personal sexual triumphs into an actual easy-to-follow guide that you can use in your own everyday life.

And the answer to that is yes.

One of the keys that the Brattons hit on in their program is the differences between what women want and what men want. Yes, this has been the main point behind almost every terrible romantic comedy ever, but the Brattons have a point when it comes to most of what they’re saying. When women get involved in a long-term relationship, they want one thing. When men get involved in one, they want something else.

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Just think of the last one you were in. Men get to the point where sex is expected, when they come to see it as just another everyday part of their lives. Women, on the other hand, never want to stop being romanced. This central conflict is only one of the ways that male and female outlooks on sex diverge that the Brattons hit on.

But don’t take my word for it. Head over to their website to download a free sample of the product and see if it’s right for you. Included in the sample is a couple of reports, one of which is called “Is Her Sex Drive Repairable: The BlueBall Diaries,” which relays the stories of four guys who all didn’t know whether or not their marriages could be saved. But, after using the product, they all got to the point where they were having lots of sex again and the passion from the start of the relationship came back.

Also included in the free trial offer is “21 Deadly Seduction Mistakes Men In Relationship Make that Kill Their Sex Life,” a downloadable .mp3 that allows customers to listen to a discussion with all sorts of experts on what you’re doing that turns her off. It is shocking at the things that you won’t even NOTICE doing until you listen to this presentation. And then, when you do notice, you’ll be able to put a stop to it immediately and get her back in the mood.

Is this product for everyone? Well, if you’re not in a long-term relationship and are just roaming around being single, you can probably wait on this one. But if you’re in a long-term relationship or marriage – even if the sex hasn’t yet fizzled out; it’s never too early to prepare yourself for it – then you have to give the samples of “Revive Her Drive” a shot. At the very least, you’ll walk away with some extra bonus tips that will only help make your sex life better.

So, she dumped you.

There are few worse feelings, having your heart ripped out and chopped up into little pieces. If only she could know how you feel about her. If only she would see how you love her and cared for her. Maybe if you do some kind of grand gesture where you take her on a lovely getaway or buy her concert tickets or a whole ton of flowers she’ll realize how much you mean to her and …

STOP THAT THINKING RIGHT THERE.

Get her back

That’s not going to win her back.

Groveling and having no self-esteem is not the way to get her back. That’s probably why she dumped you in the first place. No, if you want to win your ex-girlfriend back, you need to follow these steps.

Step 1: Cease All Communication With Her

This is going to be one of the toughest parts. But no more phone calls. No more texts. No more “likes” on Facebook or Re-Tweets. Take her off of Facebook. Stop following her on Twitter. Just completely and utterly remove her from your life, both virtual and otherwise. This will put her in a mindset of curiosity around you, always wondering what you’re doing, and if you’re meeting other people while she’s gone.

Step 2: Get Back in the Gym

When my last girlfriend broke up with me, I couldn’t eat for a few months, so I got really skinny and sickly-looking. This, obviously, is not going to win anyone over. You need to start working out again. Go for some jogs. Get back in shape. Improving your physical appearance – whether through working out or by getting a new expensive haircut – is vital. You need to regain your self-confidence by heading out there and getting compliments from other ladies.

Step 3: Remember How To Date

This is vitally important.

At some point, she will try to come back. They always do. And when she does, you have to be ready for it by treating it just like a new relationship, like when you first started dating. Instead of bringing all of this baggage to the relationship, you need to “play the game” that got you her in the first place.

That means, of course, teasing. For more on teasing, check out this video I made:

If you do that, then you’ll start to get her to be jealous, nostalgic, and back to thinking about you in a sexual way. These are vital if you are going to win her back.

The main key of all this though, the main take-away, is that the only way to win her back is by not making it look like you’re trying to win her back. That’s the only way she’s going to be interested in you once again and get in the mindset that she made a terrible mistake. And then, you will get your girlfriend back.

For more tips on how to win back your ex-girlfriend, check out this article at TSB.

Paul Janka Review

Paul Janka is a lightning rod in the POA community. He doesn’t have a whole lot of fans because of his personality. Dude is brash, arrogant, and seen as a bit of a creep by both men and women. BUT, here’s the thing: His methods tend to work.  So I decided to do an unbiased Paul Janka review.

At least, that’s what everyone’s been telling me. So that’s why I decided to take Janka’s Attraction Formula method out for a spin. And here’s a review of it for you.

First, though, I’m going to show you a video that’s been going around of Janka picking up a girl out on the street:

(Watch this Video to Learn his Exact 3 step System)

In a nutshell, it kind of demonstrates the contents his program: it will help you get phone numbers. This is the building block that Janka teaches. This, and not really much more. Which isn’t to say it’s not valuable.

You see, getting phone numbers is kind of like a comedian writing jokes. It’s not good for a comedian to spend hours and hours on a single joke that, like it or not, is going to be in one ear of the audience and out the other in a matter of seconds. It’s better for that same comedian to spend those hours and hours writing dozens and dozens of “okay” jokes and trying them out from there. It’s a matter of quantity over quality. And girls’ phone numbers work the same way.

No matter how hot you are, or how much “game” you have, or how well you’re dressed, or how much money you have, certain girls are just not going to be into you. The trick, then, is finding out those ones that will be into you. And to do that, you need to get yourself a shitload of phone numbers.

Which is what Janka knows how to do. Here he is, get a college girl’s phone number:

Looks easy, right? It kinda is after reading Janka’s Attraction Formula.

So, then. Will it work for you?

Yes, if:

- You are at the very least average looking.

- You are not scary shitless of talking to girls.

- You seem to need that one thing to put you over the edge with women, you seem so close but, for whatever reason, are still striking out with girls.

- You’re friendly and able to talk to girls easily when out and about or at parties, but for whatever reason you clam up when it’s time to exchange phone numbers.

No, if:

- You’re hideous looking and weight 300+ pounds. Before you get into getting girls phone numbers, it’s time to trim down and shape up.

- You have extraordinary approach anxiety and can’t even look at a girl for two seconds in the eyes. This isn’t going to help you get over that hump. You either need to do it on your own or head elsewhere for it.

- You’re already a stud with the ladies. In that case, then you really don’t need any help at all, so why are you even reading this?

There you have it. If you fall in the former category, pick up your copy today and have at it. If you’re in the latter, then spend some time working on yourself a little more before giving this a shot.

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Think about the last time you were on a really terrible first date. The girl was really weird, or not very attractive, or just annoying, or you just got a really terrible vibe from her. Now, did you see her a second time?

Probably not.

It’s the same way the other way around, which is why it’s incredibly important to make sure you have a good first date. The most important thing to keep in mind is that you have to – HAVE TO – flirt with her some on the first date. And the best way to do this? By asking the right first date questions.

The Key

First date questions work well if you keep this in mind: This is not a job interview! You are not judging her based on her references or the previous jobs she’s had or what her GPA was in college. That’s all way beside the point.

What you are judging her on is her personality. So the questions you want to focus on are all based on her personality. It’s not “How many pets do you have?” it’s “Tell me why you have a pet.” See the difference?

If you simply ask how many pets she has, she can go into the facts of the question, like she has one cat, or two dogs, or whatever. But if you get her talking about the importance of having a pet as a companion, well, that gives you a deeper insight into her and will move the conversation into the next level.

Avoid Small Talk

Bad questions to ask on a first date would be about where she went to college or where she grew up is kind of the equivalent of just having small talk. You know how you see the lady down the street, who you really don’t have anything in common with other than living on the same block, and you just talk about the weather or what is going on with that local sports team? That only exists because you two have nothing in common.

That’s not what you want with a girl you’re on a date with.

Avoid small talk at all costs. Get into the heart of things quickly. You only have so much time on this first date, so don’t worry too much about breaking the ice. If she’s nervous or scared of doing so, the best way to loosen her up is by talking about actual emotional things.

Remember to Flirt

Instead of going on-and-on about this, I’m just going to link to a video I did about how to flirt on a first date:

Picture this: You’re in a bar or a club or something like that and there’s a very hot girl giving you eyes from across the room. You know you want to go and talk to her, but you start to get knotted up in your stomach. You get sweaty. Your nerves start to go. And soon enough, instead of talking to her, she’s moved onto another guy. That could have been you.

Easier than you think

Approaching girls is tough stuff. Everyone knows that. (Especially you, if you’re coming here to read this.) Which is why I’m going to break it down and make it easier with this primer.

Set Yourself Up For Success

Too many guys try to work out their nerves and problems approaching girls by heading out to the normal places to pick them up. Bars, clubs, walking down the street. These are not the places to work up your nerve. The girls are already on their guard. Instead, try to approach girls at more neutral places like class, ballgames, or at the library.

Get Rejected

I know this may sound like what you want to avoid, but you have to realize that rejection is the first step to success. See that guy over there talking to that hot girl? He’s been rejected so many times before this one. And that dude over there? He’s been rejected more than anyone here. But they plow through those rejections and get on back there. Each rejection is a lesson, a step in the right direction. As long as you’re out there, instead of just sitting on your couch staring at the TV, you are making progress. As Charlie Sheen would say, “Winning!”

Get To Chunking

I’m going to let this video speak for me:

Mistakes To Avoid

Three big ones you need to avoid:

- Personal space. Give it to her. When guys start talking to girls, they might get a little too forward and start creeping her out. My own method of avoiding this is to approach girls from an angle and situate yourself so that you’re talking to her over one of your shoulders.

- Don’t be nervous. I know it’s easier to say than do. But just keep in mind, this will all be over soon enough. In the grand scheme of things, talking to this one girl means nothing. Really.

- Enough complimenting. Just avoid it at all costs. Don’t say she’s a good dresser, or funny, or cute, or anything. Save those for when you talk to her later. If you give her too much of the power right off the bat, it’s going to cost you in the long run.

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Some of the most nerve-racking moments of my life have simply been asking out a girl. Once, back in high school, I actually had to vomit immediately before doing so in order to somehow calm the nerves that come with asking a girl out. But, the thing is guys, it’s really not that scary of an issue when you know how to correctly go about doing it.

What To Establish First

Guy asking girl out

Before asking a girl out, you should establish some kind of attraction with the girl. This is kind of the laying-down of the groundwork so that she will say “yes” when you ask her out. (In which case, it’s not going to be nearly as scary anymore.)

Make sure the girl sees that you’re a fun guy to hang out with, and not a shy introverted guy who she may find kind of creepy. Show her that you are a leader, being the one to get your friends all together and the kind of guy who floats around a party saying “hi” to everyone. Girls also want a bit of a chase, so don’t let on that you’re THAT into her in the first place or you’d be sabotaging your chances for later.

What Not to Do

When asking a girl out, there are a few things you should keep yourself from doing at all costs:

- Asking her to a dinner or movie. These two have become social short-hands for “this is a serious date,” which will scare off a girl because of it’s seriousness.

- Being too eager. If you make it seem like it’s a big deal if she’s going to say yes or no when you ask her out, then she’s going to get flustered and scared of the high pressure of the night. Make if seem like you don’t really care. Either way, you’re going to have a fun time.

- Be specific. Don’t ask her if she’d like to do something, sometime, fishing to check if she’s into you. Instead, make a specific plan (let’s do this, at this time, at this date) and see if she accepts. If not, you can work around her schedule and plan for a better time when she can make it, but don’t put it on her to come up with an idea. This way, you can also put yourself in the best situation to make you come off the greatest!

How to Ask Her Out

With all of that in mind, I made a video you should check out for how to ask a girl out. With these tips, and learning how to flirt with a girl, you never have to be scared of asking a girl out again:

The Importance of Flirting With Women

You can be the most attractive guy in the bar, you can be the funniest, you can be the wealthiest. But all of it means nothing if you don’t know how to flirt.

Guy flirting with girl

By flirting with a girl, you are showing her that you’re interested. That you want to move the situation past just being friends. To do so, you have to use your body language in order to send her the signals that you’re interested in more than just hanging out. Doing so is simple as long as you keep these steps in mind:

1. “Tease” Her

This is the most valuable ways of flirting with a girl. Listen to what she’s saying and observe her, and then challenge her about certain parts of her personality. For instance, if she’s acting gullible or displays a wild side to you, give her a little nudge and jokingly mock her about this. Make sure not to be overly rude or you’ll come off simply as an asshole instead of a flirt.

2. Funny Banter

This is similar to the teasing line of flirting, but without mocking her. Instead, joke around in a harmless way to her based on something that is happening during the conversation. One of my favorite examples is, if the girl I’m with accidentally spills her drink (which happens more than you’d think), ask the bartender to cut her off for the night since she’s clearly drunk. It sounds a little lame on the page here, but trust me, something like this works.

3. Use Body Language Flirting

While a lot of flirting with girls happens through verbal communication, most of it is simply conducted through body language. A simple smile or touching her arm while talking or maintaining eye contact works hundreds of times more than a simple joke.

4. “Partners in Crime”

This is one of the my favorite flirting lines. What you’re doing is basically becoming partners in this crazy world around you. Sit at the bar (or wherever you’re at) and begin commenting on strangers that pass by. This puts you in a position with the girl where you are on the same wavelength, which creates a powerful sense of flirting.

For more techniques, check out my 10 tips for how to talk to women video below:

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Review of Keni Style’s Superman Stamina

Superman Stamina Review (Will it Make You Last Longer?)

No doubt you’ve been there: your sitting there, in bed with a woman you have been trying to woo for months and months, and you finally get a chance to get inside of her … but you’re so excited that you last for only a minute.

Literally.

How embarrassing.

Well, maybe not EVERYONE has been there. I have a friend who seems to be able to have 5 or 6 girls pretty much “on call” whenever he wants some. He just sends them a little booty call or text, they settle on a time, and he’s plugging away in no time.

How does he do it?

Well, I asked him once, and what he said was simple: he gives them what they want. Which is great sex.

And now, with the Superman Stamina Program you too can give them the sex they want, which will have them returning for your services in no time.

Does Superman Stamina Work?

The program is split into 3 sections:

1. Superman Seminar DVD Review

This is the dry, instructional section of the program.

It’s where male porn star Keni Styles and a few other hosts offer the dry, cold instructions of what you need to know in order to last in the bedroom. They go over topics such as what masturbation does to your body, how the use of various boner pills will affect you, the truth about penis size, and so on.

It’s good that Styles is the one giving the instruction here. He’s a porn star, after all! Unlike those old white dudes who write the various “How To Be Better At Sex” books that you’ll find on the shelves of your various chain bookstores, here’s a dude whose JOB is to bang girls.

No doubt, he knows how to do it.

This section of the program is 86 minutes long, so you know it’s going to be jam-packed full of information. But if this is where the program ended, it wouldn’t get my approval. No, where the program picks up is the next section.

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2. Superman Stamina Keni Styles in Action DVD

So, yeah. This section is basically porn. But in a good way.

In the section, Styles is plugging away at a female porn star AND offers instruction to us viewers about what he’s doing. Talk about multi-tasking!

All jokes aside, I find that actually seeing the technique in action, as opposed to simply just the explanation from the first section, really sped up the learning process. If this wasn’t included in the program, it would have just been basic. But actually seeing it working (and the fact that you’re seeing a hot chick get nailed, after all) helps an amazing degree.

That said, even here the program wouldn’t be completely worth it. But there’s an amazing third section still to get through …

3. Superman Stamina Solo Training DVD

Here’s where you get to put all of the instructions to use. It’s split into two parts.

The first part simply goes over everything that you’ve learned so far. The concept of the “arousal ladder,” how to use pace and tension, why you need to keep your eyes open, and all of that stuff. But the second part is where you take things into your own hands, so to speak.

The second part is basically a video of a hot female porn star masturbating, and you’re supposed to jerk off to her. But instead of just jerking off like you would any porn, the video gives you a number (1-10) of what your “arousal level” should be at any point in the video. It also gives you a variety of tips to maintain focus on what you’re doing.

The whole goal is to keep you at a specific arousal level while delaying the final moment of orgasm. This, no doubt, will help you last longer in the bedroom as well.

Like I said before, I hope this Superman Stamina review has convinced you that this program is well worth the money. There’s nothing else really like it out there – most programs tend to look negatively at jerking off to porn, instead of actually using it as an instructional tool! – and it definitely will help you last longer in bed.

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Attract Women: Avoid These Mistakes

There are a lot of common mistakes that guys make when they are trying to attract women that they want to get to know better. By people able to spot some of these common mistakes, you too will be able to charm your way into having a conversation with the women that you are interested in. When you know which behaviors to avoid, it will help you to learn a little bit more about what you should be doing when trying to attract women.

1. Displaying Weak Body Language

One of the most common mistakes guys make when trying to attract women is displaying obvious signs of weakness in their body language. When you do things like fidget around, bite your nails, or look down at the floor you are exhibiting signs of weakness, whether or not you realize it. The best thing you can do is be confident and let the woman you are talking to know that through the body language you use.

2. Looking Like a Slob

Your looks will be important when learning how to attract women. If it is one thing that girls hate, it is a guy that looks like he doesn’t even care about his appearance. Before you talk to any woman you will want to take a close look at the way you dress as well as various things like your hair; good grooming and the clothes you wear are very important if you really want to attract a nice-looking woman. Keep in mind that looks are just as important to women as they are to men, so you will want to consider that before approaching one that catches your eye.

3. Coming on a Little too Strong

Playing it cool is definitely an important thing to remember before approaching a woman you like. One of the biggest turn-offs for most women is guys that come on too strong and act like they are completely desperate when it comes to talking to women. Since the last thing you want to do is make it look like you are some pathetic loser who can’t get girls, you will need to consider how you are coming off when talking to any given woman. While you certainly want her to know that you are interested, you also do not want to make it so that she things you are desperate to get a date.

4. Being Socially Awkward

A lot of guys have the same problem of being socially awkward, meaning that they do things like mumble or talk in a low voice when they are speaking with a woman. These are all signs that you are weak and nervous, which is exactly what you will need to avoid at all costs. When you are talking to a woman you have to be somewhat assertive and know what you are doing. The last thing you want to come off as being is socially awkward, so make sure that you are smooth in the way you talk to her and keep the conversation flowing naturally so it seems like you do this all the time, because she will definitely like that.

Check out this article for more tips to attract women.

Getting Girls on Campus

For some guys in college getting girls isn’t always easy. You will want to think about some of the best tips on how to get girls while you are in college so you don’t spend all four of your years lonely and horny. The more ways of getting girls you have the better your chances will be of getting a girlfriend or if nothing else getting laid.

The internet is definitely a resource that you won’t want to discount when you are looking to get with girls on your college campus. Online social networking sites like Facebook were created for college kids to find each other, so you will certainly want to take advantage of as many of those places as possible on the web. You will be able to search for specific names or just browse some of the girls who go to your school.

Make sure to throw out all your corny pickup lines that you have learned in high school, because they just won’t work in college. If you really want to get with the hot chicks on campus, you have to be a little bit more patient and clever than that. Make sure that you take the time to actually get to know the girls you want to get with before making your move, so they will be more willing to hook up with you when the time is right.

Also try joining some of the clubs and various activities on your college campus that girls you know are participating in. This is a fairly easy way to be around a lot of hot chicks that you can chat up in order to get their numbers. Make sure to be subtle though, because despite what a lot of guys have been told, most college girls don’t like guys that get right to the point.