Not always hard

Talking to girls is tough. I know. I’ve been there.

Back in college, there was this really attractive girl that I had a crush on. My problem was I didn’t know what to say to a girl. Over and over, I’d see her in my class and imagine what it would be like to take her out and go through the various lines that I’d have to say just to get her to acknowledge my existence. Years later, I found her on Facebook and she admitted that she always had a crush on me, and really if I could’ve really said anything and she would’ve said yes. But now, she had moved on and was in a long-term relationship.

Ugh.

Talking to girls is stressful, and because of the stress it means that so many of you guys aren’t going through with it. And because of THAT you’re passing up these opportunities with great women. Which is why I’ve devised this step-by-step guide to talking to girls. We’re going to start with what to say to start a conversation.

Step 1: Begin an actual conversation with her right away

Too many guys get scared and begin to focus the conversation on menial things like the weather or sports or just the bar they’re at. (The common opener “Come her often?” is one of these.) And then the guys get surprised when the conversation goes nowhere. Instead, try to find something that you’re passionate about, or she is, and start talking about that. Make it mean something. Make it valuable.

Step 2: Flirt with her

This is a biggie. In addition to going through funny things to say to a girl, I’m going to just let my video do the talking here:

Step 3: Make her laugh

This is tricky. If you are trying to hard to be funny, she will know right away and it will ruin the mood. But it’s actually a little easier than you think once you know how to do it. Again, I’m going to let my video do the talking:

Step 4: Argue with her a little

One of the main mistakes that guys make is immediately agreeing with the girl every chance they get, in order to establish a bond between the two of you. While this is more preferable than, say, just yelling at each other at the top of your lungs, you still have to establish yourself as your own person with your own beliefs and opinions. Express those opinions in a conversation and she will like you more because of it.

Step 5: Conversation games

If the conversation hits a lull – and most of them do – then it’s time to break out the conversation games. This means things like “Name your top 5 blank” or “Would you rather?” or “Truth or dare?” Parlor games that you play with your friends. This will keep the conversation going until you find another topic to delve into and let it go from there.

A Step by Step Guide

Many of us know the horrors that come with falling into the friend zone. It’s the place where, after hanging out with a girl a few times, you are entangled in this area where it’s too late to make a move on her without it being weird. So instead, you just hold onto this love of her while she just carried on life thinking that you’re just friends.

While it’s extremely tough to break out of this zone once it’s established, I have a step by step guide to how to escape the friend zone. Follow these instructions, and soon you’ll be turning that friend into a girlfriend.

Step 1: Change the Pattern

Now, whenever she calls, you pick up the phone. Whenever she wants to hang out, you agree immediately. Basically, you act as if you’re there for her whenever she wants. Break out of that pattern. When she calls, wait a few days to return her call. When she wants to hang out, say you have plans. It’s important for her to realize that you’re not always going to be there for her.

Step 2: Jealousy!

Nothing make a girl more jealous than you hanging out with another girl. When she calls to find out if you want to hang out, say you can’t because you’re hanging out with another girl you met. If you don’t have another girl to hang out with, just keep it super vague or make something up!

Step 3: Change it up

The next time she sees you – I recommend at least 3-4 weeks – make sure you’ve changed something about yourself. Maybe a haircut, or new glasses, or the clothes that you’re wearing. What you want essentially is for there to be a reset button in your relationship. This will give her a chance to see you in a different light. Hopefully, a romantic one.

Step 4: Flirt

Now that the relationship has been changed up a little, take advantage of it by actually flirting with her this time. Last time, you let the relationship stagnate into the friend zone. This time, make sure it’s changed.

For a video guide on how to flirt, check out the following video:

Step 5: Go in for the Kiss

At the end of the date, make sure to end it with a kiss. This is the time to do it. Don’t chicken out now. If she gets apprehensive and asks you what’s going on, just be straight with her and maintain your confidence. She’s like that. And if she doesn’t, well, you’re still out of the friend zone.

Let’s be honest, you didn’t need another friend anyway.

My review of Bobby Rio’s Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy

Although I used to have problems talking to women, all of that changed when I started taking some of the simple yet useful advice which ultimately led to a more active dating life.

One of the biggest issues I had was making a conversation flow, but when I started using the Conversation Escalation techniques, my entire world changed; suddenly I could talk to women with no problems and there weren’t any of those annoying awkward pauses either. By using these technique I soon discovered that all of the things I previously thought about building conversation skills were dead wrong.

Using the FREE advice that Bobby Rio put out (which was amazing) I decided to get his entire Make Small Talk Sexy method.

By using this method I was able to start making small talk and have women listen to me while I did it. While at first I did think that it was too good to be true, I ended up recognizing the benefits quickly and it started working like a charm.

One of the most useful things I learned was why women didn’t keep talking to me after minutes of conversation. I quickly learned that I was actually annoying them, something I never before realized. Becoming self-aware is definitely key in using this technique, and by reading of these tips I was able to change all of that overnight.

Where most guys go wrong is in the middle of a conversation with a woman when they run out of things to talk about and things just stop. Among other things I learned how to keep things flowing naturally and without forcing the conversation or turning it in an unnecessary direction. I still can’t believe just how effective many of the tips are that are included in this informational product. Never before have I seen such results in a short period of time.

Not giving up and quitting is one of the key elements that this entire concept is built on. As long as you keep working at it and trying, you will be successful. If this method of talking to women has taught me anything, it has been that there are a lot of guys that do not know how to go about carrying on a conversation and I am no longer one of them. You might just be surprised when you learn some of these things and then look at yourself to see what you have been doing wrong.

There is no doubt that the Conversation Escalation program works wonders, and I am living proof. Numerous times I have asked myself what I was doing wrong, and I finally got the answer. Learning how to effectively chat up virtually any woman I see and flirt with them is a skill I am glad to possess. Although I have encountered quite a few scams in the past that didn’t really give you any useful information, this is definitely not one of them. The truth is that this method can work for any guy that is having problems with socializing with women and carrying on conversations. There are way too many good tips in this method for any guy who needs help to fail.

Check out the Conversation Escalation page.

Vin Dicarlo is My Hero

There is no doubt that a lot of guys need all the help they can get when it comes to attracting women and keeping them interested.

Enter a genius by the name of Vin Dicarlo.

Vin Dicarlo is the creator of the Pandora’s Box mind reading system.  Yes, it’s as good as it sounds!

Overall Pandora’s Box is a quality informational product which provides much more than you would expect from something like this.

While there may be a lot of informational products on how to get women, this one is by far among the best there is on the market right now. Any guy who wants to be able to instantly attract just about any woman they encounter will definitely want to spend some time looking into what this product has to offer with regards to tips and tricks to help women fall head over heels with you.

Most guys who see a woman that is taken automatically want to know how they can get her away from the other guy so they can have her all too themselves.

When you  Vin Dicarlo’s tactics to lour a woman away from her current man, it really isn’t all that difficult. When you have competition for the woman that you want, there are definitely multiple ways to go about getting her, and that is just part of what you will learn with Pandora’s Box.

Learning how to create a certain persona that exudes self-confidence is something else that will come in handy with regards to getting the women that you are attracted to.

Learning how to get almost any woman to come home with you is a skill that a lot of guys just do not have, but when you go through some of the tips included in Pandora’s Box, you will find that it might be easier than you originally thought.

Those guys that have trouble starting a conversation will also be interested in seeing what this product has to offer in terms of improving social skills. When you start to discover the different ways to instigate a conversation with a beautiful woman, you will have a much easier time scoring.

Something else that Pandora’s Box teaches guys is all of the secrets behind how women think and how to instantly read them. With this product you will get all of the tools and resources you will need to profile every single woman that you are interested in, so you won’t have to wonder whether or not she is in to you or what she is thinking. With enough practice you will be able to learn exactly what most women want and how to avoid the ones that cannot make up their minds, because they are just a waste of time.

There is no doubt whatsoever that Vin Dicarlo’s Pandora’s Box supplies desperate guys with the answers and solutions they have been looking for which will improve their sex lives dramatically. If you wish that you could get laid more or even just go out on more dates, you will definitely want to look into this product as a means of accomplishing that. Once you start applying what you have learned here, you will immediately notice the difference in your day-to-day life.

Learn more about Pandora’s Box

Making Extra Cash While in College

It is a popular stereotype that all college students are broke and have no money, but that’s not always the case. There are actually a lot of different things you can do when it comes to picking up some extra cash to spend on your girlfriend or when you go out to the bar on weekends. Having money is something that everyone wants, but a lot of college students who are struggling through their first couple semesters need it the most.

Personal Trainer

One of the most popular occupations for college students to hold is that of a personal trainer. If there is a gym or YMCA near you, see if they need any personal trainers. They are in great demand right now so you shouldn’t have trouble finding a job as one. As far as qualifications go, there are certain certifications and courses that may be required depending on where you apply.

School Store

Try getting a job in your school store. You might be able to get a position stocking books or behind the check out counter ringing up students’ items that they purchase. Most schools need all the help they can get in their stores. Although it probably won’t pay very well, it will give you the extra cash you have been looking for to get out of your dorm and have some fun once in a while.

Ticket Taker or Usher at Stadium

Another option that you have is to see if there are positions available as ticket takers or ushers for your school. You typically see these people out at school events like football games tearing the tickets of students who come in. Again it isn’t a job that will get you very much money, but it will get you by until you graduate and are able to make the real money. Consider these options when you are tired of feeling poor so you can finally have some extra cash to throw around.

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Speaking of conversation, check out Conversation Escalation: Make Small Talk Sexy.

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