Is your girl still hitting up her exes? We asked our relationship correspondent how to deal with this situation from a girl’s point of view…
Have any of your exes ever hit you up? Be honest, did you ignore them? You really can’t tell her who she can be friends with. That would mean that either you’re insecure, or she can’t be trusted. What you can do is make her realize that being with you is better than it ever was with him. You need to put a little effort into it make her see that your relationship is more fun, more exciting, and more satisfying. If this doesn’t work, then you’re going to have to talk to her. Be honest. Tell her that the situation makes you uncomfortable. If she really cares about you, then she should respect your feelings and cool it with the other guy.
If she doesn’t stop, who’s to say that she isn’t just keeping him around as a back-up? She obviously still cares for him. She may tell you that she doesn’t want to hurt his feelings, but what about your feelings? Bottom line, if you tell her the truth about how the situation makes you feel and she doesn’t care, it’s not gonna work. She’s sacrificing a great future with you for someone from the past.
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I wouldn’t stand for that crap…